Jul 21 2010

Top 3 ways to never succeed in life

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Hey! Yeah I know it’s been a while since I have posted and it’s been rather infrequently at that. Tell you the truth I had to stop for a while, because it was time to stop simply dreaming and take action on my ideas to realize those dreams. I would like to say that I have done it! My new business is due to launch August 12, 2010! Yes a real business I am passionate about, good at, and in love with. Book mark it now www.SpiceCrafters.com, when I launch you all will be the 1st to know (discount codes included)! I would not have gotten to this point if had not thrown caution to the wind and took some risk. By all means launching a business is just the beginning, but it feels so good when you take something from concept to a tangible product you can experience.
So here are my Top 3 way to never succeed in Life

  • Don’t do anything, just believe the dream and ponder

I believe in The Secret and The Law of Attraction, since watching that documentary over 3 years ago I have been slowly forcing myself to change the way I think and view the world. I can truly say with that knowledge I am happier then I have ever been and accomplishing more then I ever have previously, BUT and a big BUT! I had to start doing something, I got caught up in all the dreaming and neglected the most important part…, being in action! If you never start your dream it will always be a dream.

  • Plan it all out, it has to be perfect before you start

Ok, so you know your dream, you know what you want and now you have to plan it all out to smallest detail. WRONG! You get enough in your head to get started,  figure the rest out as you go. That’s where the reinforcement of your positive attitude and resiliency will carry you to the next level. I read so many stories about great entrepreneurs who didn’t know what they were doing when they started, but through faith, perseverance and believing in themselves their ideas grew to be great success stories. I recently watched a Biography of the Gallo bothers (Gallo Wine), when they started in the business they went to a library to learn how to make wine, they are now the Largest Wine Company on the planet. The key is had already started on their dream before the ever stepped foot in that library. They already knew they would, the figured out the how as time passed.

  • Try not to fail because you only get one shot

Yeah, if this were true no one would ever be successful. Yes, sometimes you only get one shot at a certain idea, but when you fail it teaches you many lessons while leading you to your true calling, should you choose to press on. If you’re still breathing you can always start over. I have tried many small business ventures and failed. I had to fail, if I hadn’t I wouldn’t be in the position I’m in today. It has taken me a couple failures to figure out what my true talent and calling is. For the longest time I didn’t know. You have to simply set your sites on what you want, go after it and let the chips fall where they may. After you have given your everything, you reflect, learn, and get started on the next goal. Never stop moving forward.

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  1. stag do said:

    Good way to get fired – or recognized as not employable – NO personal calls etc. while at work. You are getting paid for your time and anything else is stealing from your employer.

    July 22nd, 2010 at 5:43 am
  2. tires said:

    Best of luck to you and your new website Victor! The logo on the new website looks really good, I hope it does well! :)

    Till then,

    Jean

    July 23rd, 2010 at 12:54 am
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    Successful leaders combine expectation with gratitude. They expect the best from themselves yet remain grateful for what they have and those around them…

    July 23rd, 2010 at 6:40 am
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    July 23rd, 2010 at 9:22 am
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    If you’re wondering how to succeed in life, you need to start by asking yourself three questions. Once you have the answers to these three questions, you will already be closer to your success than most people ever will be in their entire lives.

    July 26th, 2010 at 9:17 am
  7. Community said:

    Do you ever have fears and doubts that you'll never succeed in life and how do you deal with those fears?

    July 28th, 2010 at 4:40 am
  8. stag do said:

    Everyone likes to succeed in life at any cost and wishes to achieve something really special. Success is not that easy and demands constant toiling. Once there’s no hard work and required efforts, expecting anything miraculous to take you to success would be a mistake.

    July 29th, 2010 at 8:47 am
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    Success in life begins in the mind and then the body. A person who wishes to succeed in life must take care of his or her mind and body. Successful people eat right and stay fit.

    July 31st, 2010 at 11:14 am
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    i think honesty and hard working is the better way of succeed in life .compare to other ways..Thanks

    July 31st, 2010 at 11:32 am
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    It depends what you want to succeed in, if you just mean life in general then maybe try "How to succeed in the game of life", I haven't read it, I don't believe that a book will help me at all with my life right now..

    August 2nd, 2010 at 2:54 am
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    The key to program yourself to success is setting goals in life… Now it is important for success life that we have goals to improve our lives, buy our dream home, a new car etc. and successful life delivery…

    August 2nd, 2010 at 4:26 am
  13. Community said:

    by believing in himself and being confident about himself many people are able to overcome the criticism of family and others and leave them behind and go and create something wonderful which brings them success.

    August 2nd, 2010 at 7:03 am
  14. indiana Real Estate said:

    Truthfully, you can't succeed. If you are willing to limit your definition of success, then maybe you will eek out a little joy in life; however REAL success -the breaking down barriers, proving everyone else wrong, winning the respect of friends and enemies alike kind of success- it simply isnt in you.

    August 2nd, 2010 at 11:21 am
  15. indiana Real Estate said:

    Hi all three way is very important for find success in life all is very important sharing all is share again by again.

    August 2nd, 2010 at 11:23 am
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    Is it necessary to have friends to be able to succeed in the real world?

    August 3rd, 2010 at 6:17 am
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    Congrats on your new venture, hope it works out successfully for you. Also agree fully about planning. I guess and second guess every step of the way in life because I'm always afraid of something going wrong so I try to look at things from all angles.

    August 3rd, 2010 at 8:12 pm
  18. emdoozie said:

    Thanks, yes planning is key to any venture, but if plan so much that we never do anything we have already failed. Did you get a chance to view the website. We launch next Thursday on August 12th. Any feedback is always welcomed

    August 3rd, 2010 at 8:20 pm
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    Congrats on the new business. The website looks awesome. Best of luck establishing yourself in that niche. I would think you could do quite well selling spices.

    August 4th, 2010 at 10:44 pm
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    Yes mostly some way allocate in life that is made a person not success all is know every things in this blog really very nice sharing.

    August 5th, 2010 at 3:44 am
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    Do you believe that if a person is quiet & does not have any friends, he will not succeed in life?

    August 5th, 2010 at 8:29 am
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    It begins when I roll over to turn off my alarm in the a.m. and I have to use the other arm because my shoulder hurts too damn much and ends when go to sleep at night and have to sleep on the left side to avoid shoulder pain…

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    I think thats true? How do I really know its true? Am I willing to suspend judgment and wait and see what happens.

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    Do you ever have fears and doubts that you'll never succeed in life and how do you deal with those fears?

    November 30th, -0001 at 12:00 am
  26. Bidet said:

    These are great tips to follow if you want to fail. Its true to do the opposite, plan as go along and test things out, you learn from your mistakes and it does not have to be perfect right away.

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    Thanks and the good planning is the key to get success. Thanks for sharing it.

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    It has been so long since I updates. I am currently living in Overland, Mo. and not sure how I feel about it. I am working in a sales position for a good company, all thought it is extremely stressful I feel that I am happy there.

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    November 30th, -0001 at 12:00 am
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    Usually risk taking is considered a bad thing. Yet risk takers are the ones who achieve success in life. People who are afraid to take risks don't accomplish anything. Sam Walton and Dale Carnegie both stepped outside of the box to create something new with their lives.

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    It has taken me a couple failures to figure out what my true talent and calling is. For the longest time I didn’t know.

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    Pretty inspirational post. Like the old saying goes, a stitch in time saves nine. Better to plan ahead and implement carefully than going in overconfident and finding yourself lost. Those who go about things this way normally tend to be more successful.

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